money worries?
October 13, 2008
mumpaldad asked:
l knew my husband for years before we got married.i was in an accident & received about £30000 but everyone thought i go more.i but the money in an account for 5 years so i couldnt touch it.now me & him have had a long relationship on off i got pregnant by him at 16 & he didnt want to know but i had a miscarriage & after that didnt see him for years.when i met him again about 6 years ago he had changed but deep down i wanted to hurt him the way he hurt me.now he thought id loads of money in the bank & i didnt make him any the wiser.anyway mush to my amazement i did fall in love with him by this time we decided to move to the uk.we did & i started dipping into the money & it was gone in a year but he still thought id more in another account.we got married 5 years ago & have 2 wonderful kids the problem now is he wants to move back home & for me to get money which i dont have out of bank to buy house.i fell dreadful i told 1 lie & it has really gone wrong.im so worried cant eat or sleep
l knew my husband for years before we got married.i was in an accident & received about £30000 but everyone thought i go more.i but the money in an account for 5 years so i couldnt touch it.now me & him have had a long relationship on off i got pregnant by him at 16 & he didnt want to know but i had a miscarriage & after that didnt see him for years.when i met him again about 6 years ago he had changed but deep down i wanted to hurt him the way he hurt me.now he thought id loads of money in the bank & i didnt make him any the wiser.anyway mush to my amazement i did fall in love with him by this time we decided to move to the uk.we did & i started dipping into the money & it was gone in a year but he still thought id more in another account.we got married 5 years ago & have 2 wonderful kids the problem now is he wants to move back home & for me to get money which i dont have out of bank to buy house.i fell dreadful i told 1 lie & it has really gone wrong.im so worried cant eat or sleep
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October 15th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
tell him the truth….it’s all you can do…
October 15th, 2008 at 6:33 pm
It is time to come clean, the tables got turned, and now you need to face up to the deception. He deserves to know the truth and you need to get it off of your chest, too. Good Luck
October 16th, 2008 at 7:05 am
If he only was with you for the money, and you knew it anyway, why would you think he would stay after it was gone? If he loved you, he would be okay knowing the money would not last forever. And not make a big deal out of it. So, either way, it is time to get jobs and grow up.
October 18th, 2008 at 8:16 am
Well just tell him you don’t have the money…what you had you put it to good use. Doesn’t he have a job or was he back just for the money? Sounds like your motive was to get even and his motive was to marry you for your money…both of your motives back fired and now the kids are in the middle. Be honest and tell him no more $$$ and if he leaves then you would know for sure that you were his cash cow and the next relationship can be built on truth not lies…
October 21st, 2008 at 4:08 am
well did he love you or your money. give it time for him to cool off
October 22nd, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Dumbbutt, tell him the truth there is nothing you can do.
You knew this person only wanted to be with you for the money and you went ahead and fell into it anyway and set yourself up to be alone and hurt AGAIN by this person. Good luck!
October 25th, 2008 at 12:07 am
Caught in your web of a lie. Sad part is two children are caught also. This behavior is deceitful. You led this man to believe you were something you were not. Now you are living with the consequence of your deceit. I would embrace your situation as a very valuable lesson. Honestly I do not imagine your spouse will trust you again. Your role is to make a commitment for your future to change this type of behavior.